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How to Write a Pro Se Custody Declaration
A declaration is sworn factual testimony on paper. It should be chronological, specific, sourced where possible, and free of speculation.
Fast Checklist
- Case caption and declaration title
- Personal knowledge statement
- Numbered factual paragraphs
- Exhibit references for key facts
- Signature block and required oath language
Use numbered facts
Numbered paragraphs make it easier for the court and the other party to respond. Keep each paragraph to one fact or tightly related group of facts.
Avoid mind-reading
Write what you saw, received, did, or can prove. Avoid statements about the other parent's motives unless you have a record that directly supports the point.
Connect exhibits cleanly
When a paragraph relies on a document, cite the exhibit in the same sentence. Example format: 'A true copy of the school attendance record is attached as Exhibit 3.'
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FAQ
Can I include emotions in a declaration?
You can explain impact when relevant, but the declaration should lead with observable facts and records.
Should friends write declarations?
Only if their testimony is allowed, relevant, and based on personal knowledge. Check your court's rules for witness declarations.
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